Amelia Talks: July 2018

Hello and Welcome back to my little place on the internet, after having like two pretty serious and deep chat posts, I wanted to lighten it a bit up here and appreciate some amazing creators or YouTube. I have been watching YouTube for what seems like a very long time now and within the years of watching it, I fell in love with a lot of different YouTubers, I mean I could just list the usual and most popular youtubers for example Zoella or Joe or Alfie but lets be real as much as I love them and I do still love their videos and watch them all the time. There are also some other amazing YouTubers out there that I literally love watching them. Some of these people I have been watching for a long while and others are people I have been watching for a few months. So lets do this, they are in no particular order, just in a list of what I wrote in my notebook.

1. Anastasia Kingsnorth

Anastasia Kingsnorth is by far one of my favourite YouTubers, I honestly don't remember the exact time I started watching her videos, but it was a long time ago, I want to say about 3 years ago but I don't remember but ever since, I have really enjoyed her videos and her vlogs. It's crazy how much someone can really achieve when they really work for it and they put in the effort and with Ana, you see she puts in 100% with everything she does and it definitely pays off. Even watching her vlogs really motivate me to work harder at everything I do.

2. Caitlin Rose

Caitlin Rose is someone I have been watching for a while as well and I have alwyas enjoyed her videos, but when I really started watching a lot more of her videos is when she went to University and she uploaded University Vlogs and videos and it was somethign that helped me when I was preparing for university. She has a great range of videos from Vlogs to Mystery Videos, to Fashion videos and it's amazing how much effort she puts into it alongside being a university student. One thing about her though is she is genuinely so nice, I tweeted her several questions before I was going to University and she always replied with the sweetest replies and and was always willing to answer my questions.

3. Aimee Vincent

Aimee is a channel I have only recently found but her videos always make me smile and I do very much enjoy her videos. One of her videos was about How to Deal with a bad day, I watched this when I was actually feeling down at university the other week and honestly it really did help me and her videos just seem very helpful but also fun to watch.

4. Zoe and Chloe

I came across Zoe and Chloe when I started my channel and after watching a couple of their videos I fell in love, every thing I watched of there's always made me laugh. Their content is something i enjoy watching all the time. They work hard on their videos and I always end up entertained by them, and all the time I was down at uni or just down in general I will make sure to watch a videos of theirs and I am all together transformed and feel happier.

5. Kalyn Nicholson

Recently I went through a down moment where I soon googled on YouTube how to be happy and single, crazy how I needed to do that right? But after doing that I found Kalyn's video, she spoke about how to be happy and single and it really helped. After watching that, I started watching more and more videos of hers and really enjoyed watching it that I couldn't help but subscribe and continue watching them.

6. Emily Rose

Emily's video was something I really came across when I started university in September, because I was looking at university room tours and her's came up and I found out she started uni at the same time as me. After watching that, I fell in love with her videos and her personality is just great, it comes across in every video. The other thing I liked about watching her videos is you could tell she worked hard on them and she wanted them to be good. I loved her Uni vlogs because it always interests me what others get up to at uni.

7. Beauty Spectrum

Recently I started watching Beauty Spectrum and I honestly fell in love with her videos very quickly, especially her travel vlogs, because it makes me want to travel more and more excited for the idea of travelling in the future. I really like her fashion videos but my favourite are her vlogs, I look forward too it all the time. She's just genuinely herself in her videos and I always enjoy the time watching her videos.

8. Saffron Barker

Saffron Barker is one youtuber I have watched for a while, I was subscribed to her a while back before I even watched a video but once I watched one, I enjoyed watching them all the time. Her energy and her work ethic is amazing and for someone who is just 18, it's great how much work she put's in which proves that no matter how old you are, if you want something or you want to achieve something, you can if you put the work in. It's wonderful to watch her videos and vlogs and just see what she's up to.

9. Talia Mar

Talia Mar's youtube is always fun to watch, she has a mixture of beauty, music (she is a fantastic singer.) and some great collabs too. Her videos are also very entertaining, (I feel like all the ones I am saying they are entertaining but it's the truth.) Fun Fact: I actually was part of a talent show a while back with Talia, a long time ago anyway. But her video's are great and I don't think I have ever missed a video's of hers.

10. Tiffany Alvord

When I first started watching youtube videos back when I was around 15, Tiffany was the first person I watched, because I was actually looking for a specific song and then her cover came on and I listened to it and then ever since i listened to every cover she has posted and her original songs as well.

So that is my top ten youtubers and I am still always watching them, but I feel like they deserve some acknowledgement and the deserve the praise because they are by far amazing.

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Well Hello and Welcome back to my blog and to another post, hope you're all doing well? Hope you're having a wonderful day. I have come up with this ideas to have these coffee chats on my blog because there are things I want to get off my chest and need to write down, whether this helps others or it's just there for my mind to reassure myself.

This blog post is about how to deal with a heartbreak or surviving a down day, a lot of things will be talking about a heart break but I feel like some of the things you do to deal with a heart break, you can also do on a down day. Remember it's alright to have those days when you're feeling down.

So story time before I give my little tips on how to deal with heartbreak, this topic came to me because recently I fell for a guy and we went on dates and things got a little closer in the fact that we nearly had sex, and then thing started to change, it went from him making an effort to see me, to then not making the effort and then him telling me he can't reciprocate the feelings, which okay yes he told me the truth, but he kind of led me on and it did hurt because I was falling for him and to hear that it really broke my heart. Even if I have never been in a relationship but I definitely felt my heart break over that, I cried from about 2am the night he told me to about 10pm the next day. But then these things I am bout to give you tips on helped me through it and I thought I would share it with you guys. I also made a statement on my instagram that can be found right here >>>> https://www.instagram.com/p/Bkq_5ZzBh5J/?taken-by=missamelia.jane.

So lets get into these tips that I am given, none of them are professional, some of them are things I have heard from others and some of them are just things that genuinely helped me move on from everything that was going on in my life.

1. Let out a little Cry
You probably hear this everywhere, but it's okay to let out a cry, to be emotional, it doesn't mean you're weak, it doesn't mean the other person has won, it just means you're human. Honestly as much as you might not want to cry, you need to, it lets out everything and all the pain you're feeling helps you let go, it's crazy to think that even just crying over something can help you, it won't mend a broken heart and it won't fix anything but it does help and it does make you feel better because you've addressed the problems in your head and your mind is just telling you that you need to cry and then you do, whether you cry in front of people or you cry on your own don't be ashamed as I promise you, you will feel a little better if you do so.
2. Keep yourself busy
This is something that I think is important when you're having a down day or going through heartbreak, you need to keep yourself busy, make sure you're doing something all through the day because otherwise you're going to end up miserable and thinking about everything and sad. Luckily for me when I got told that this guy couldn't reciprocate the feelings for me, I was cleaning and having to pack my room up so that distracted me and honestly, having something to keep you busy always helps because then your mind isn't focusing on the bad things going on in your mind, your mind is focused on something else.
3. Focus on the good things in your life
Of course when you're going through a bad time, it's hard to remember that there are so many good things going on in your life. It's something we all do when we're down, you just look past every amazing thing that is going for you and what is going on in your life. For example, as a uni student I can focus on all the amazing opportunities that are still out there for me. We can all focus on the good things and something I heard in a YouTube video that I recently watched, write in a journal either every night or when ever you feel down and sad, something that is really good in your life whether that be something you have achieved or whether it's a friendship or just something that has happened that has made you happy. The way I see it is always try to think positive.
4. Give yourself Me time
This is something that we all neglect to do because you think you need to be somewhere for someone else, you have to do this for someone else, but where do you fit in? You can't always be places for others but you can always take a few hours of your day or a even a day and just have some time to yourself, whether that be just chill and watch a movie, or getting your nails done on your own, or reading a book, you really find that if you just give yourself time, it will really help and I think no matter how busy your days might be with meeting friends or going to work or college or school or whatever you have going on, you should give yourself a couple of hours to yourself and just unwind and give yourself some time a lone. Maybe do a little work out to clear your mind or have a nice pamper evening and relax and pop a Netflix show on.
5. Go for Walks
This is something I really emphasise, going for walks anywhere can be relaxing, just a walk on your own with your headphones and listening to some music and just giving yourself time to unwind can be really helpful and can always help you just clear your head. It's great if you live by a beach but even if you have a little park area you can go to, it really helps. Because you just have yourself, fresh air and a way to just relax and get your head away from anything that makes you miserable and feel down and clear your head of anything that is going on. Walks always help with that perfect playlist playing whilst your on that walk and i definitely recommend creating a certain playlist with music that helps pick you up and feel better.

So that is my tips on how to deal with a heart break or survive a down day, I would love to know any other tips that others have to deal with a down day or a heart break, so please leave your advice in the comments, it would be great to see so we can all help each other out.

Thank you for taking the time to read my post, hope you check out my other blog posts and enjoy the rest of your day :)

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