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Hello and Welcome back to my little place on the internet, after having like two pretty serious and deep chat posts, I wanted to lighten it a bit up here and appreciate some amazing creators or YouTube. I have been watching YouTube for what seems like a very long time now and within the years of watching it, I fell in love with a lot of different YouTubers, I mean I could just list the usual and most popular youtubers for example Zoella or Joe or Alfie but lets be real as much as I love them and I do still love their videos and watch them all the time. There are also some other amazing YouTubers out there that I literally love watching them. Some of these people I have been watching for a long while and others are people I have been watching for a few months. So lets do this, they are in no particular order, just in a list of what I wrote in my notebook. 

1. Anastasia Kingsnorth
Anastasia Kingsnorth is by far one of my favourite YouTubers, I honestly don't remember the exact time I started watching her videos, but it was a long time ago, I want to say about 3 years ago but I don't remember but ever since, I have really enjoyed her videos and her vlogs. It's crazy how much someone can really achieve when they really work for it and they put in the effort and with Ana, you see she puts in 100% with everything she does and it definitely pays off. Even watching her vlogs really motivate me to work harder at everything I do. 
2. Caitlin Rose
Caitlin Rose is someone I have been watching for a while as well and I have alwyas enjoyed her videos, but when I really started watching a lot more of her videos is when she went to University and she uploaded University Vlogs and videos and it was somethign that helped me when I was preparing for university. She has a great range of videos from Vlogs to Mystery Videos, to Fashion videos and it's amazing how much effort she puts into it alongside being a university student. One thing about her though is she is genuinely so nice, I tweeted her several questions before I was going to University and she always replied with the sweetest replies and and was always willing to answer my questions.
3. Aimee Vincent
Aimee is a channel I have only recently found but her videos always make me smile and I do very much enjoy her videos. One of her videos was about How to Deal with a bad day, I watched this when I was actually feeling down at university the other week and honestly it really did help me and her videos just seem very helpful but also fun to watch. 
4. Zoe and Chloe
I came across Zoe and Chloe when I started my channel and after watching a couple of their videos I fell in love, every thing I watched of there's always made me laugh. Their content is something i enjoy watching all the time. They work hard on their videos and I always end up entertained by them, and all the time I was down at uni or just down in general I will make sure to watch a videos of theirs and I am all together transformed and feel happier. 
5. Kalyn Nicholson
Recently I went through a down moment where I soon googled on YouTube how to be happy and single, crazy how I needed to do that right? But after doing that I found Kalyn's video, she spoke about how to be happy and single and it really helped. After watching that, I started watching more and more videos of hers and really enjoyed watching it that I couldn't help but subscribe and continue watching them. 
6. Emily Rose
Emily's video was something I really came across when I started university in September, because I was looking at university room tours and her's came up and I found out she started uni at the same time as me. After watching that, I fell in love with her videos and her personality is just great, it comes across in every video. The other thing I liked about watching her videos is you could tell she worked hard on them and she wanted them to be good. I loved her Uni vlogs because it always interests me what others get up to at uni. 
7. Beauty Spectrum
Recently I started watching Beauty Spectrum and I honestly fell in love with her videos very quickly, especially her travel vlogs, because it makes me want to travel more and more excited for the idea of travelling in the future. I really like her fashion videos but my favourite are her vlogs, I look forward too it all the time. She's just genuinely herself in her videos and I always enjoy the time watching her videos. 

8. Saffron Barker
Saffron Barker is one youtuber I have watched for a while, I was subscribed to her a while back before I even watched a video but once I watched one, I enjoyed watching them all the time. Her energy and her work ethic is amazing and for someone who is just 18, it's great how much work she put's in which proves that no matter how old you are, if you want something or you want to achieve something, you can if you put the work in. It's wonderful to watch her videos and vlogs and just see what she's up to. 
9. Talia Mar
Talia Mar's youtube is always fun to watch, she has a mixture of beauty, music (she is a fantastic singer.) and some great collabs too. Her videos are also very entertaining, (I feel like all the ones I am saying they are entertaining but it's the truth.) Fun Fact: I actually was part of a talent show a while back with Talia, a long time ago anyway. But her video's are great and I don't think I have ever missed a video's of hers. 
10. Tiffany Alvord
When I first started watching youtube videos back when I was around 15, Tiffany was the first person I watched, because I was actually looking for a specific song and then her cover came on and I listened to it and then ever since i listened to every cover she has posted and her original songs as well. 

So that is my top ten youtubers and I am still always watching them, but I feel like they deserve some acknowledgement and the deserve the praise because they are by far amazing. 

Thank you for taking the time to read my post, hope you check out my other blog posts and enjoy the rest of your day :)


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Well Hello and Welcome back to my blog and to another post, hope you're all doing well? Hope you're having a wonderful day. I have come up with this ideas to have these coffee chats on my blog because there are things I want to get off my chest and need to write down, whether this helps others or it's just there for my mind to reassure myself. 

This blog post is about how to deal with a heartbreak or surviving a down day, a lot of things will be talking about a heart break but I feel like some of the things you do to deal with a heart break, you can also do on a down day. Remember it's alright to have those days when you're feeling down. 

So story time before I give my little tips on how to deal with heartbreak, this topic came to me because recently I fell for a guy and we went on dates and things got a little closer in the fact that we nearly had sex, and then thing started to change, it went from him making an effort to see me, to then not making the effort and then him telling me he can't reciprocate the feelings, which okay yes he told me the truth, but he kind of led me on and it did hurt because I was falling for him and to hear that it really broke my heart. Even if I have never been in a relationship but I definitely felt my heart break over that, I cried from about 2am the night he told me to about 10pm the next day. But then these things I am bout to give you tips on helped me through it and I thought I would share it with you guys. I also made a statement on my instagram that can be found right here >>>> https://www.instagram.com/p/Bkq_5ZzBh5J/?taken-by=missamelia.jane. 

So lets get into these tips that I am given, none of them are professional, some of them are things I have heard from others and some of them are just things that genuinely helped me move on from everything that was going on in my life. 

1. Let out a little Cry
You probably hear this everywhere, but it's okay to let out a cry, to be emotional, it doesn't mean you're weak, it doesn't mean the other person has won, it just means you're human. Honestly as much as you might not want to cry, you need to, it lets out everything and all the pain you're feeling helps you let go, it's crazy to think that even just crying over something can help you, it won't mend a broken heart and it won't fix anything but it does help and it does make you feel better because you've addressed the problems in your head and your mind is just telling you that you need to cry and then you do, whether you cry in front of people or you cry on your own don't be ashamed as I promise you, you will feel a little better if you do so. 
2. Keep yourself busy
This is something that I think is important when you're having a down day or going through heartbreak, you need to keep yourself busy, make sure you're doing something all through the day because otherwise you're going to end up miserable and thinking about everything and sad. Luckily for me when I got told that this guy couldn't reciprocate the feelings for me, I was cleaning and having to pack my room up so that distracted me and honestly, having something to keep you busy always helps because then your mind isn't focusing on the bad things going on in your mind, your mind is focused on something else. 
3. Focus on the good things in your life
Of course when you're going through a bad time, it's hard to remember that there are so many good things going on in your life. It's something we all do when we're down, you just look past every amazing thing that is going for you and what is going on in your life. For example, as a uni student I can focus on all the amazing opportunities that are still out there for me. We can all focus on the good things and something I heard in a YouTube video that I recently watched, write in a journal either every night or when ever you feel down and sad, something that is really good in your life whether that be something you have achieved or whether it's a friendship or just something that has happened that has made you happy. The way I see it is always try to think positive.  
4. Give yourself Me time
This is something that we all neglect to do because you think you need to be somewhere for someone else, you have to do this for someone else, but where do you fit in? You can't always be places for others but you can always take a few hours of your day or a even a day and just have some time to yourself, whether that be just chill and watch a movie, or getting your nails done on your own, or reading a book, you really find that if you just give yourself time, it will really help and I think no matter how busy your days might be with meeting friends or going to work or college or school or whatever you have going on, you should give yourself a couple of hours to yourself and just unwind and give yourself some time a lone. Maybe do a little work out to clear your mind or have a nice pamper evening and relax and pop a Netflix show on. 
5. Go for Walks
This is something I really emphasise, going for walks anywhere can be relaxing, just a walk on your own with your headphones and listening to some music and just giving yourself time to unwind can be really helpful and can always help you  just clear your head. It's great if you live by a beach but even if you have a little park area you can go to, it really helps. Because you just have yourself, fresh air and a way to just relax and get your head away from anything that makes you miserable and feel down and clear your head of anything that is going on. Walks always help with that perfect playlist playing whilst your on that walk and i definitely recommend creating a certain playlist with music that helps pick you up and feel better.

So that is my tips on how to deal with a heart break or survive a down day, I would love to know any other tips that others have to deal with a down day or a heart break, so please leave your advice in the comments, it would be great to see so we can all help each other out. 

Thank you for taking the time to read my post, hope you check out my other blog posts and enjoy the rest of your day :)

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Hello and welcome back to my blog, how's everyone doing? It's been a while since I last posted a post but now all exams are over and first year is done! How exciting! So now here we are with another post and it's one long over due after filming a video about it, but it is my first year university experience. Back in October I gave you my freshers experience but now I have been at the university for a year now, I think it's about time I talk about the experience I have had and hope that maybe this will help others who are either going to University in September or are thinking of going in the future. 

When I chose to go off to university I didn't think I was going to last even a year but things definitely changed once i got there. I am going to break this post down in different sections. In each section I will give my experience within it as well as advice for people who need the advice. 

 But first off you can find my YouTube video of this down below. 

Section 1 - Living in Halls
When I first started university, I was definitely worried about living in halls, would I get along with my flat mates, would I be able to hang out with my flat mates, what if they hate me. It's a big change to go from living at home with your parents to then just jump up and leave and live in halls on your own with just a group of people who also have done the same thing. That's when you realise you're no longer at school, clique's don't exist, you can be yourself and most people don't care. I was very lucky that my flat mates made living away from home very easy, we bonded very quickly and although we had one flat mate that never really joined us, we did get on very well with him as well. I was the only girl in my flat but honestly, I didn't mind it, we all got on, we all spoke about a lot of things and we used to always hang out and do things as a flat.  

As time moved a head, things with my flat started to not be the same, partly because when they got in relationships things just drifted but it wasn't that we didn't get on, we actually still got on really well but we didn't do things together as much any more. Now although that really did suck because it made me feel really lonely and that was when I started to feel slightly depressed but luckily there were people to pick me up and that definitely got better because i found people in the halls that I could go to.  

Another thing about halls, is that it really made me feel so much more independent then if I had decided to stay at home and commute but also makes me more proud and happy to have come to university. I have learnt how to deal with problems on my own, what it's like to survive on my own and what I have to do. I have learnt how to slightly cook for myself although not even going to lie, I am more excited about going home and not having to cook for myself and enjoy my dads cooking again. 
Section 2 - Friendships at University
When you are at university, it's easy to believe you won't make friends like I mentioned above that I didn't think I would make friends with the people I lived with. I also didn't think I would make friends with others as well. It's surprising how quickly you make friends at uni, and how many friends you make. Now of course some of these will just be friends you see occasionally in class and you might bump into on a night out. But others will be friends you'll




meet up with outside of the class and hang out with them, talk, go shopping, explore the place you're now living and just having fun and making memories. 
Another way of making friends in your course is group work. Majority of uni's do

this, especially first years but probably second years too, they put you in groups as in the real world you usually have to end up working as a team for a career. When working in groups, you have to spend a lot of time with the people who are in your group, which also leads to getting to know them. I made three of my closest friends from my marketing group, and we ended up spending a lot of time at the group meetings chatting instead of doing work. One of my best friends Simran also came from being part of a group and without her I probably wouldn't have the friends I do now and I am very grateful for.
My advice for people nervous about making friends at university is just be yourself, and don't think about past experiences at school with making friends, because I garentee you, it's not like school when you have to fit in and be part of a "clique", people will just easily talk to you and just be approachable and you will make friends, quicker then you think you will. 
Section 3 - Friendships at Home
This is something I definitely wished more people spoke about before I left for uni, because my closest friends who go to uni both commute so I still got the chance to see them when i was back home last year before coming to university.  Friendships at home are something you want to make sure you can keep them going so when you go home you can go to them, you can spend time with them and catch up. Now luckily for me most of my friendships at home stayed the same, mainly because we were used to not seeing each other that often and when we did it obviously meant a lot. But uni did strain one of my friendships at home and as much as I want to say I think we'll still be friends in the future, things have been complicated, with some friends thinking I have changed since being at uni, well that was inevitable, but in my eyes and majority of my friends I have changed for the better but in one of my friends eyes I changed for the worse and wasn't making time for my "real friends" But I was for my uni friends. Going with this at uni you're going to spend time with people at the uni otherwise you'll be lonely but that doesn't change how i feel about my friends at home. With this, my closest friends at uni are my real friends alongside my friends from home and I shouldn't have to seperate them because I have met them at uni, because when you're around people every day at uni, you get closer to them quicker then you think. 

Although it can strain friendships like it has with one of my friends, it does make you value your friendships at home more because it gives you something to look forward too when you have to go home. When you have attached yourself to a group of friends at uni and then you have to go and not see them for a certain amount of time, it's nice to know that when you go home you can catch up with your friends from home and have a lot to talk about and catch up on. 
Section 4 - Stress
As you are aware when you grow up, you will get more stress but something they don't tell you yet you kind of expect with university is Stress! I have definitely encountered a lot of stress over the time of being at uni and it hasn't exactly been fun dealing with this stress but it has definitely been something to learn from and I have definitely learned from this. One of the big stresses is Money! As a student you are given a maintenance loan with your student finance and this is great and you see a large sum of money in your account but the problem with that is for me anyway is that I just wanted to spend it on anything and before I knew it I was slowly running out of money. It became stressful because I had to turn down some amazing things but the stress it left me with was more will I have enough money for whilst I am at home in holidays and using an overdraft is a big stress because you don't want to use it all up. 

Another thing that I ended up stressing about was finding someone to live with next year and having a place to live. It's not easy finding people to live with and it's also not easy finding a house and it led to a stress. Luckily this stress only lasted a few days for me because when I started stressing over it, I then met someone who needed one more person to live with next year to make a group of four of us and luckily for me, I love making new friends so it wasn't that hard for me to say yes. 

Something everyone expects to stress about is Deadlines, the Dreaded Deadlines that approach very quickly even when you don't expect them too. It's easy for you to get caught up in exciting things before you then realise you have like a week to get this essay written.  I mean I got stressed about them more because I didn't understand some of my coursework that led to me having four days to write an essay that I didn't really understand but luckily I got it done, didn't get the best grade for that one but either way it was definitely a stressful time. 
Section 5 - Societies
The final section is all about Societies, so this is something I advise as many of you who are going to university to join. Societies are there for a reason, they are there for you to do something you enjoy that's not your course and a place where you can make new friends and friends who all enjoy what you enjoy which makes it more fun and something to make you bond. I joined Show Choir and when I first joined I was so quiet and honestly didn't think I would enjoy it. As time went by I grew out of my shell and started talking to everyone and then became very good friends with everyone in show choir. I was also very lucky to win an award at the end of year meal for Miss Congeniality because I always had a smile on my face, I made friends with everyone and apparently put a smile on everyone's faces. 



That is the end of my First Year University Experience, so I know it's a lot of writing and not many pictures but there was a lot to say. Hope you do enjoy the pictures that are there though.



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Welcome back to another post here on Amelia Beauty and Advice and hope you guys like the new theme, I know I do, considering I paid for it as well! Although I still need to do my Uni Year One round up, I am going to do that once exams are over but this is something I need to talk about after being obsessed with for four years now.

A good four years ago, my friend introduced me to Sex and the City the movie, I mean of course I knew about the film and the series but I had never actually watched it which I was definitely shocked about when I finally watched the film and then immediately I decided to start watching the series and immediately I fell in love with the show, the fashion, the designer shoes (which of course I wish I could afford but unfortunately I can't.) 

Sex and the City consists of a tv series of six seasons and two movies and it's about four girls named Carrie Bradshaw, Samantha Jones, Miranda Hobbs and Charlotte York. And then there are men like Mr Big, Steve Brady, Aidan Shaw, Harry Goldenblatt, Smith Jerrod and many other men of the girls life. In all honesty the foundation for this show, is the friendship and it follows the friendship of these four ladies. 

For me, my life is more important with friends then a relationship, I mean I have never had a relationship before but I mean true friends are going to be by your side for as long as possible. I mean relationships are great and of course if you find the one then they will be by your side forever, but the reason I love this show is the friendship and the fact that "your friends can be your soulmates." 

I like to think that I am a mixture of all the girls especially Carrie and Charlotte. Carrie is the writer, she writes a column about Love and Sex really, but she writes (like i like to write a blog, you get me?) Another reason I feel like I am a lot like her is I am ambitious which for me is a big thing. I also feel like I am like her because when she is in such a happy place and an easy going place, she is waiting for something bad to happen, now I know that's a bad way to live, but unfortunately it is something that I go with which is why I am always scared to try new things. Saying that I also feel like I am like Charlotte, because I really do believe in Love and the idea that everyone gets their happy ending, although I do believe it happens when you wait for it and you're not expecting it to happen unlike Charlotte when looking for that guy to marry. She is also very optimistic about everything which is something that I love and feel like I try to be like as well and there is also a little bit of Charlotte inside of Carrie! Part of me is also like Miranda, mainly because I see myself as a a workaholic and a hard worker who tries to put her full potential in her work. 

So If you hadn't already guess I love Sex and the City.

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Hello and Welcome back to my blog with another blog post that is focusing on university. This is a study with me which I know is usually done on YouTube but I thought it would be nice to have it as something to read as I do vlog a lot of what I do during my day at university. 

I did a study with me back when I was in college but within the time then and now, things have changed and I study differently now. 

Now let's all agree studying isn't easy and it's not the most exciting thing to do with your day when you could be shopping or at the beach or with friends but it's something that has to be done. In this study with me, you will see how I study for my exams coming up in under a months time. So let's just get into this. 

Firstly 
Every morning before I even start my revision, I go to my kitchen to get my morning Caffeine fix otherwise I am not wise to be around. But seriously it really does help me get into that study mind set and put focus on the day although I do tend to have at least four to five cups within the day but either way I just think I have a coffee addiction.  The coffee I tend to go with is Nescafe gold. 

Secondly

Around this time, I tend to usually start my revision slowly, I ease into it by having a to do list and go through that to do list and aim to complete the to do list by the end of day. With this to do list, i then get to started on the piece of revision that I had planned to start first and I am to get that done within an hour to an hour and a half. 

Thirdly

I then get up the lecture notes for the unit I am planning to revise at that time so that I have the resources I need to get the important information that is needed down in order to hope that I memorise it and actually understand what I have to do. 



Fourthly
I then make sure to get all kinds of stationary so that I can give things different colours so that they stand out. These Stabio Boss highlighters are my go too, I like the pastel colours highlighters and it does show what I need to know for my revision

Fifthly
I then after writing in notebooks, take the important notes out of the stuff I have written on to queue cards which I can then look over several times to try and teach myself what I need to know. 

Finally

The last thing I need for revision is snacks in order to motivate me, I love to eat as it is, food is literally the best thing in my life although it's an unhealthy obsession because I eat more sugary and fattening foods instead of healthy. But it really helps me because then at least I know I'm not hungry. 



That was my study with me, revision style, hopefully this continues to work for me. 


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Hello My Lovelies and welcome back to my blog, hope you're all doing great. This blog post is an impromptu post that I never expected to write this because I never expected it in the first place. 

So lets get on with it.  As you can see by the title of this blog post I am writing a post for the Sunshine Blogger Awards.

I was nominated by the lovely Stephanie Jay who can be found at her blog here. 

This award goes to bloggers who are positive, inspiring and bring a little bit of sunshine into people’s lives.  I’m really touched that Paige thought to nominate me, so thank you very much!
Rules:
  1. Thank the blogger who nominated you by linking their blog.
  2. Answer the questions.
  3. Nominate 11 blogs with 11 questions.
  4. List the rules as well as displaying the Sunshine Award logo on your post
Questions:

  • What was the last picture you took on your phone?
The last picture I took on my phone was one for my next blog post that will be up very soon so I don't want to place it on this post. Its of snacks. 

  • What made you start a blog?
I personally love to write, it's just something that I love to do and I just wanted to share everything that comes into my small head with people of the internet. It really started when for my college course, I had to write a blog post for one of my assignments. 

  • What do you enjoy most about blogging?
Being free to write anything I have ever wanted to write and not have people stop me and getting the opportunity to make other friends who enjoy the same passion as I do. 

  • Which three famous people would you invite to a dinner party and why?
Probably Andy Samberg, because I am obsessed with Brooklyn 99 right now and he's just hilarious, Sarah Jessica Parker because she's one of my idols and probably Nina Dobrev because I couldn't help but love her.
  • Which two makeup products could you not live without?
Mascara because it makes me look slightly more awake and Lipstick, makes me feel much more alive.
  • What’s your favourite film?
Oh what a hard question, I literally couldn't answer this but as of right now, my favourite movie has to be Kingsman: The Secret Service. 

  • Where would you go if you could go anywhere in the world?
New York City! Because this is my bucket list goal to go and I love the city and wish I could go there so much. 

  • What is your dream job?
Honestly, something to do with Theatre, either an actress or working in Theatre that's all that matters to me. 

  • Have you been/are you at University?
I am currently a University Student, I love it so far, it's interesting. I study Business and Management which is very interesting. 

  • If you were an animal what would you be?
A Koala because they look so cuddly and I just love them. 

  • What’s the biggest challenge you’ve had to overcome?
Probably moving out of home and going to university, and believing it's okay to be single and also just because I am not always invited places doesn't mean I am not wanted within some of my university friends. 


The Questions I am giving you: 

  1. Why did you start your blog?
  2. What are three things you couldn't live without?
  3. What is your favourite shop?
  4. What is your favourite Television Series?
  5. What is your most favourite memory?
  6. Where do you want to be in five years?
  7. What's the first thing you do when you wake up?
  8. If you could change one thing in your past what would you chose?
  9. If you had to be one FRIENDS character for a day who would you be? 
  10. If you were stuck on a desert island, which three celebrities would you want there?
  11. What is your favourite food?
I Nominate: 

  1. @sydnidenise5
  2. @FreelyNat
  3. @ItsMayaRose
  4. @AnneDonahoe
  5. @_spilledpolish
  6. @skincare_diary
  7. @tralisty
  8. @TashaDeborah
  9. @FOXXTAILZ
  10. @hayleyjoeann
  11. @MandyFerrugia
Thank you so much for taking the time reading this, congratulations to my nominations and thank you Stephanie for my nomination. See you again soon with another blog post. 


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So first off welcome back to my blog, I am very happy to be writing again and excited to announce here as i haven't done so here yet unlike I have on Twitter and Instagram. But after long decisions, I have finally started a YouTube channel which you can find here. Would love it if you checked it out and maybe subscribed. 

So for this post I have decided to write something I have been wanting to right for ages and this really is for me mainly but for other people out there who felt the same as me about being single when seeing others happy in a relationship, then maybe this will help you. 

Recently, well when I say recently I mean more like for the past couple of years or so, I have felt lonely, felt like I need a guy in my life, I need to be in a relationship, I shouldn't be single. Then I always asked myself how comes I am single? What's wrong with me? Am I ugly? Am I boring? Why is everyone else around me getting in relationships but I'm not? And honestly it really disheartened me for such a long time. 

It took me a long time to believe that I could be single and being single is great, but then I realised, I'm only 22, I don't need to be in a relationship, I just need to be myself, be independent and be happy to be single because honestly you only get one shot at your twenties, might as well make the most of them and if you're spending all your time hung up over the fact that you're single then you're not going to make the most of them, instead you're just going to spend all your time wishing for something that won't come along. 

I know it's a cringey and old time saying, but I believe that it's true, the fact that when you're not looking and not waiting, someone will eventually come along, when you're ready. If you're lucky you might meet them when you're in early twenties, in your teens but sometimes you just might meet them in your late twenties or early thirties, and you know what, that's okay. 

Now I know it's tough seeing your friends in a relationship and cuddling up, even seeing anyone walking hand in hand together and you can sometimes think I just wish for that. But there is always time for it, the more you go looking for it, you could find the wrong guy and end up getting badly hurt but if you wait for it to happen, you might find the right person and be genuinely happy. 

There is NOTHING wrong with being single. It's actually perfectly fine to be single and a lot more normal then you think. It's actually fun and once you fully indulge the single life you can have so much fun. If you have watched how to be single then you know doing things on your own really helps. Also spend time with friends and just have a laugh it's fun. When you go out with friends for nights out or anywhere, just go and have fun, don't go looking for a guy or a potential partner, it will get you feeling very low if you do look for one and don't get one and you don't need that. Also like in sex and the city, surround yourself with great friends and make them your family and love them because real and true friends will be by your side all the time.

So pretty much all I am saying live the single life right and have fun. That's what I am planning to do!


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